Comments on: My death and funeral arrangements http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/ spreading sweetness and light Mon, 20 May 2013 11:41:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Aafke-Art http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9293 Thu, 12 Jul 2012 20:43:45 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9293 Radha, The Q is very down to Earth and he plans to depart before me, but you never know. One can snuff it at any time.
I will expect you at the party then. We must have ”poffertjes” on the menu!

]]> By: Aafke-Art http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9292 Thu, 12 Jul 2012 20:42:28 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9292 saffiya, My brother went far too early too, he was only 33.

]]> By: Aafke-Art http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9291 Thu, 12 Jul 2012 20:41:37 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9291 Susanne, yes there was a time he thought he needed to defend me! He was good brother, and I loved him and I am very sad he is gone.

]]> By: radha http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9289 Thu, 12 Jul 2012 20:18:01 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9289 Sorry for your loss aafke and although you have made your wishes clear :-) i don’t think i will be sending you off, quite possibly the other way around. but if i’m there i will eat your desserts and enjoy to my hearts content.
an that is one detailed plan :-) did it scare the shit out of Q?? f usually gives me the ‘ you’ve lost your marbles look’ when i talk about my end arangements :-)

]]> By: Safiyyah http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9276 Sun, 08 Jul 2012 03:30:26 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9276 Aafke, I, too, am sorry about your loss. In 1985, I lost my brother, way too early, to drug overdose. Hugz.

]]> By: susanne430 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9254 Wed, 27 Jun 2012 23:03:09 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9254 Aafke, I am so sorry about the loss of your brother. I “met” him a time or two on your blog and years ago, he visited mine. I recall we talked about American football. Apparently he was a fan. I am really sad to read this. :(

]]> By: Aafke-Art http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9249 Tue, 26 Jun 2012 21:50:07 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9249 Well, I’ll be flying tomorrow, so I thought better post it now, you never know… although I haven’t completely worked out the details. Personally I think that whoever is the earliest to check out, before those they love, is the best off.

Definitely we will have to meet soon!

]]> By: American Bedu http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9247 Tue, 26 Jun 2012 21:19:18 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9247 Dear Aafke,

I’m a bit at a loss for words on reading your post but then again, I guess I should not be surprised as you are a straightforward person. I assure you that I will certainly honor your requests. Although, to be candid, I just can’t imagine myself having to say farewell to you…I believe it may be the opposite way around.

You’re a great friend and this post also reinforces to me that we are way way overdue for a visit!

Love you,
Bedu

]]> By: Aafke-Art http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9246 Tue, 26 Jun 2012 20:06:07 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9246 I have written to you. Berend and I shared a lot, we had a lot in common and we used to have a lot of fun.

]]> By: colloquielle http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/2012/06/26/my-death-and-funeral-arrangements/#comment-9245 Tue, 26 Jun 2012 19:48:37 +0000 http://clouddragon.wordpress.com/?p=5575#comment-9245 And gosh I remember loads of conversations about you, and he gushed in all of them. You guys had such a terrible lot of tragedy in your lives and it seemed to me it bonded you two really strongly. It was really obvious to me, anyway.

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